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Sex Education What I wish I knew about sex and the female body

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Every year, the number of studies proving the physical, emotional, psychological and even social benefits of sex and orgasms keeps growing. These days, it is not a secret that sex is an effective calorie burner and that orgasms can do wonders for your health, but when it comes to more in-depth inquiries, it is easy to get caught up in facts and figures. Sex is not such a straightforward topic to address. It is quite complex because it has so many variables. As this piece is an updated version, I will not be making mention of basic things I assume you know from  Part 1 . FOREPLAY It is no news that sex has reached insane heights. There is always a new location, a new position, a new fetish. But would there be a need to improve on perfection? The problem with sex these days is that no one has time for anything. Not a lot of people put effort into foreplay and intimacy anymore. People just want to “hit”. In the end, we are left with sexually frustrated women with pink ovaries and

Sex Truths about it every woman must learn before turning 30

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Everything you should know about enjoying sex is not like it seems, sex is much more complicated than in the movies or pornography you watch. While learning as you go is part of the fun, there's no point in wasting your time believing you should ever fake an orgasm, or that you should feel embarrassed by your shape. Below are things you should know about sex while you are still younger than 30. 1. It's okay to laugh Sex may have seemed super serious when you were a novice, but do yourself a favor and loosen up a bit. It's a part of feeling comfortable in your own skin, it is owning your imperfections and the fact that bodies sometimes do weird things or make weird noises during sex. And if anything during your sexual romp does embarrass you, try to focus on the humor over the humiliation. 2. Lube up Lubing up really enhances sexual activity in general. It’s not a failure of your womanhood to get a little help from your lubricant associate. 3. Use the rubbers

3 ways to feel more intimate after sex

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When you have sex with your partner, you are creating a bubble in which you two are the only occupants, and anything that aids connection between you will keep you in your bubble. However, while cuddling can be a great way to get closer, some might not be up for it ​after sex they now feel heavy and holding your partner afterward can often feel a little annoying. But there are other ways to achieve the closeness if you are both not huge fans of cuddling. Check out these 3 ways to feel close to your partner if after sex cuddling is not your thing. 1. Getting cozy If you don't want to cuddle, that doesn't mean you have to just hop out of bed immediately. You can stay in bed to watch a favourite movie together or even lying next to each other and reading without saying a word can be very intimate. 2. Having a shower together Having sex can get really sticky, sweaty, and smelly. After you finish, a burning desire to get cleaned up might be stronger than the desire to

Hot things that happen to your body during love making

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From the flushed skin, the calmness to the racing heartbeat, sex changes the people involved for at least few minutes. It doesn't really matter knowing about the changes if you are happy with sex life. However, having a tiny knowledge of what happens within can help especially when something seems a bit off. It'sno doubt that there are so many organs and systems involved in sexual function from the inklings of desire to an orgasmic climax and beyond, so it's not just all about hormones. Below are some hot things that happen to your body when you hit the sheets. 1. The brain chemicals and hormones do their thing Having sex starts in the brain. The brain doesn't produce estrogen or testosterone, receptors for those important hormones are activated in the brain, while women's excitement stage is above the shoulders, versus below the waist for men. However, as sexual desire rises, adrenaline starts pumping, as do all three sex hormones, the estrogen th

Quickie How to make it more meaningful

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There are certain types of sex that are intimate of sex are intimate, sensual, and gentle. However, making love does not include a hot quickie. According to Elle Chase, a certified sex educator and author of Curvy Girl Sex " When people think about quickies they think about something that's slutty, but it's really just a kind of sex that can be extremely satisfying and erotic" . Also, having a quickie can be much fun as spending hours drooling over your partner's body. So discard the idea of a quickie as a midpoint to a fast orgasm and concentrate on being able to connect with your partner. Below are few tips on how that quickie sex can be more meaningful. 1. Lube up Since quickie happens really fast, that means you'll probably need a little help getting wet enough to make any kind of penetrative sex happen. So for people who have vaginas, getting fully stimulated can take up to 20 or 30 minutes. So, lube is an important part of the process.

Sex -How to prepare for a 2nd round

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You are trying to catch your breath after the first round of a mind-blowing orgasmic sex. We understand you and your significant other are all sweaty and satisfied from the happy hour. However, just a few minutes later, you both can't wait to hit the sheets again and you really want to please her utmost yearning. When it comes to the second round of sex, it's easier for women to get back into action than men. getting back in the ring for round two than men do. But below are a few tips for you to rise to the moment and satisfy her for the second "cumin". 1. Get cleaned up You have to clean up after the first round except you are trying to get pregnant. Clean up well after the first round of sex in order to be really careful about infections and pregnancy avoidance. Wash your private region well with soap and water, urinate, and properly dispose the condom from the first time you had sex and treat the second round like the previous. 2. Let the arousal con

Erotic Story - Big ass Gladys visits lonely sex starved Lanre

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Ari came to the door after several knocks by Marianna. “Just a minute” He said as he left the bathroom in a hurry, still dripping of water from his muscular body. He opened the door, and an excited Marianna rushed in, hugging him so tight, making her outfit wet with his dripping body. “How are you, Marie?” He asked smiling and hugging her back When she eventually let go of him, he went back into the bathroom, she took off her clothings as she littered the apartment with her clothings. “Marie, I was asking about your day” He asked her again “It went well, thank you very much” She replied “What are you doing, babe” He asked her as he walked back into the shower only for him to look back and find her naked behind “Nothing, your wet body made me dirty so I wanna have a total wash” She said teasingly. “Are you being serious right now?” He said jokingly. “Anyhoo, you’re welcome to join me” She stepped up to him, hugging his naked body again, before he turned on the w